Human Perception
hello...after a long while not writing a post...here goes...
been quite bored lately, dun feel like writing anything at all...besides, there was nothing interesting to write about also...
today was really nice...i enjoyed my day overall...it was a fullfilling one and i really enjoyed the company of my friends =) they are just such nice people even though i only got to know them this year.
I went to makan with them today and we sat there and literally chatted about people in college. About our other 2 friends and their characters, attitudes and ways of doing things.
Sometimes, not everyone has the same idea as you do. Also, not everyone can accept the idea u brought out. It is understandable for these things to happen, but what u never know is how hard a person takes it when he/she thinks your idea is bad, or just does not agree totally with you. Yet, however hard they try to disagree, they have no valid reason or strong backup of them saying so. They hold strong to their stand and point of view while you try to give valid reasons, trying to reason with them. The worst part of all is these people are your FRIENDS...
It's hard to really tell someone to their face what you don't like about them, their attitude or thinking. What more if it's your friend? It's even harder to open your mouth just in case it might affect your friendship...so yea, we were talking about that la...
i guess that got me thinking how people perceive me...whether I'm hard to work with or talk with or something...sometimes u'd wish u know...but when u do...Do you really think it'll be the best?
been quite bored lately, dun feel like writing anything at all...besides, there was nothing interesting to write about also...
today was really nice...i enjoyed my day overall...it was a fullfilling one and i really enjoyed the company of my friends =) they are just such nice people even though i only got to know them this year.
I went to makan with them today and we sat there and literally chatted about people in college. About our other 2 friends and their characters, attitudes and ways of doing things.
Sometimes, not everyone has the same idea as you do. Also, not everyone can accept the idea u brought out. It is understandable for these things to happen, but what u never know is how hard a person takes it when he/she thinks your idea is bad, or just does not agree totally with you. Yet, however hard they try to disagree, they have no valid reason or strong backup of them saying so. They hold strong to their stand and point of view while you try to give valid reasons, trying to reason with them. The worst part of all is these people are your FRIENDS...
It's hard to really tell someone to their face what you don't like about them, their attitude or thinking. What more if it's your friend? It's even harder to open your mouth just in case it might affect your friendship...so yea, we were talking about that la...
i guess that got me thinking how people perceive me...whether I'm hard to work with or talk with or something...sometimes u'd wish u know...but when u do...Do you really think it'll be the best?
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